Country roads, take me home. |
Autumn is my favorite time of year. Always has been since my earliest recollection.
The changing of the leaves, fresh apple cider, fall recipes with anything pumpkin, and Halloween.
Maybe it’s the little kid in me, but Halloween is still my favorite holiday. I
love the TV specials from It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown to The Legend of Sleepy Hollow (from 1980 and starring Jeff Goldblum as Icabod Crane),
and the more modern tale Hocus Pocus
(especially the cameo role with brother and sister team Gary and Penny Marshall
playing a bickering husband and wife). I’m forty-three and I still tune in when
they broadcast the specials on TV. In fact, I even follow ABC Family’s 13 Nights of Halloween on Facebook so I
can keep up with their programming schedule.
Love these Halloween Classics!! |
As a child, we lived in a large mobile
home park in Southeastern Pennsylvania. Hereford Estates had, easily, 150-plus
trailers. Trick-or-treating there was incredible. My father would take my
little brother and me out each year and, instead of plastic Jack O’ Lanterns,
we used standard-size pillow cases to collect our candy loot while my mom
stayed home to hand out candy. We would come home and dump everything out and
sort through it. I would stack mine by like kinds and my brother and I would
swap things out if one of us liked a particular candy more than another. I was
never fond of Clark Bars and O’Henrys. He hated candy corn and Heath Bars. Mom
permitted us to eat as much as we wanted on
Halloween night and then she would
take the rest away from us. She would give us two pieces a day until it was
gone. Often times, she’d put our two pieces in our lunch boxes. My school
friends were always amazed at how long our candy supply lasted, so much so,
that by fourth grade, my closest friends began spending Halloween night at my
house so they could go trick-or-treating with me.
Always nice to find treats inside my Charlie's Angels lunchbox! |
And this is sort of what my haul looked like only with full size candy bars! (Internet Photo) |
Over the years, I have enjoyed all the
tales and folklore that come along with the Halloween season. There’s something
about that spine-tingling feeling one gets while hearing a particularly
chilling story or from watching a scary movie. I’m not a fan of slasher movies.
I’ve never watched any of the Freddy Krueger, Jason Voorhees, or Michael Myers
franchises. I prefer the supernatural stories the likes of The Amityville Horror, TheShining, and Poltergeist. I like
when we are teased by the lead up as they stretch out a scary scene and the
music works to elevate our pulse rates as it builds to a crescendo of suspense—try
watching the original Psycho without
the sound and you’ll see that the movie isn’t nearly as suspenseful. Hitchcock
knew what he was doing. Over the top gore isn’t necessary. If a film has a thought-provoking
and believable plot, with capable actors, and everything is paced just right, it’s what the viewer doesn’t
see that can make the fear factor even worse. The best scares are achieved when
the film makers allow their viewers the opportunity to let their own
imaginations run wild. It plays off of our own fears. The Blair Witch Project
(if you could get through the jerky handheld camera movements) had some great
elements including this amazing back story that had moviegoers believing the
film was based on true events. The website is still set up to look that way as seen here using this link. While it’s a film worth seeing, nothing will beat
the experience of seeing it in a dark theater on the large screen.
Harry's too harmless to cause nightmares! |
After admitting to getting enjoyment
out of such tales, how ironic would it be to learn that my family and I live in
an honest to goodness haunted house? We began having paranormal experiences
shortly after moving in back in 1998. The family member most effected in the
beginning was our oldest daughter. She would run screaming from her room, all
of two years old, to tell my husband and me that “Harry” was in her room. We
didn’t know of any Harrys. My only thought was that she was referring to Harry
from the Harry the Dirty Dog book
series she loved having me read to her. When I questioned her, she adamantly
told me it wasn’t a dog but a man coming into her room at night. I shrugged it
off as an active imagination. And then other little things began to happen.
Noises, voices, and lights switching on by themselves. Little things.
Our ranch-style house was built in the
1950’s. We bought it as a fixer-upper because, more than anything, it was
extremely outdated and in need of lots of TLC, but that old adage about
location, location, location is what really worked for us. A week after the
closing, our contractor came in to build an addition, fix the wiring, install
modern insulation, and replace the roof on both the house and garage. We also
had a smaller list of things to do that involved replacing flooring, priming
and painting walls and ceilings, and such. Most of these projects were
completed by my husband, my father-in-law, and me. At one point, my husband’s
nickname was Spackle Boy. In old houses, one uses lots and lots of spackle. Our house has had three previous owners: Mr.
and Mrs. Davis, Mr. and Mrs. Grondon, and Mr. Aloi. Since my husband was born
and raised in the area, he knew the house’s history. None of the previous
owners died in the house. Sounds like a silly fact to be concerned with, but we’re
both superstitious. My husband had always referred to the original owners only
as Mr. and Mrs. Davis while talking about them. It was a respect thing since
they were both advanced in years. He fondly remembered them coming in to shop
at the local grocery store he worked at as a high school student. He never once
mentioned their first names and recalled that they were both on the short side.
Skip ahead to daughter number two who
was born a year after moving in to our house. She was our ten to twelve-hour a
night sleeper. An angel at bedtime. If I didn’t help her to bed by the time she
was ready, she put herself to bed. One late summer night, all four members of
our family turned in early after a pretty exhausting day. It was so early, that
at 8:30, it was still reasonably light outside. Not long after our heads hit
our pillows, we began hearing our youngest, age three at the time, over her
baby monitor. She started by giggling uncontrollably. You know that giggle kids
get when you are tickling them and they can barely catch their breath and laugh
at the same time? Well, that’s what Mackenzie was doing. And then she began
saying, “No. No. Stop it. No more.” Followed a few seconds later by, “Okay.
Nite. Bye.” My husband and I sat up in bed and he said to me, “Who is she
talking to?” Convinced someone was in our house, I left both him and our oldest
in our bed and took off to check on Mackenzie. I opened her door, flipped on her
light switch, and found her room empty except for her as she sat upright and
blinking away from the harsh light. I asked her who she was talking to and she
pulled her covers up and told me goodnight. I checked under her bed and in her
closet before turning her light off and closing her door. I still wasn’t
convinced it was nothing so I thoroughly searched the entire house. With living
on a main road, we had installed slide locks on the tops of both the front and
back door to prevent our children from opening them and wandering off if we
were still sleeping. During my search, I found both locks slid in place,
proving that no one had exited the house. The locks couldn’t be slid closed
from the outside. The next morning, I relayed the story to my mom. She urged me
to question Mackenzie using open-ended, non-leading questions. I did. What she
told me scared the hell out of me. This was our conversation:
Me: Honey, you know when mommy came into your
room last night? Who were you talking to before I came in?
Mackenzie: (as she played with her toys) Oh,
you know. The little girl that is old and the little boy that is old.
Me: They were talking to you? About what?
Mackenzie: Stuff. They are mad at us.
Me: (I think I began perspiring at this point)
Why are they mad at us?
Mackenzie: (she shrugs) They said we broke
their house.
As I mentioned, we built an addition
on our house. This involved tearing out the kitchen/exterior wall, a portion of
the back porch, and a nice spring bulb garden with hyacinths, daffodils, and
tulips. We saved what we could, but they were in small batches everywhere. And
then, our most recent project came that particular summer—replacing our septic
system. It entailed having to move it to a new area on the property in order to
accommodate a costly sand mound system with its septic tank, pumping tank, and
sand leach mound. Basically, when the gentleman from the county came in and
told us where to put it, we really had no choice. You do it because you want
to be able to enjoy those simple modern conveniences again since the
alternative sucks. After it was finished, my husband began the chore of getting
the surface ready for grass seed. My husband is obsessed with our yard. As we
were picking rocks from the dirt, our next door neighbor came over to offer us
his dragging tool to make quick work of the rocks. Before leaving us to get it,
he said, “It’s kind of ironic they made you put your septic system here. This
is where Harry and Phyllis had their vegetable garden. They loved their garden.
In fact, when he died, that’s where he wanted his ashes spread.” As Joe walked
away from us, my husband and I stood there, rooted in place, with our mouths
gaping open, as this latest news registered. Harry. Ashes. Garden. Septic
System. I asked my husband how he could forget that Mr. Davis’ first name was
Harry. He reminded me that he was a kid and taught to address adults by their last
names. It was an honest omission on his part—especially since he has the world’s
worst memory.
Getting back to my conversation with
Mackenzie:
Me: Was last night your first time talking to
them?
Mackenzie: No.
Me: (gulp) How many times?
Mackenzie: (as she starts getting aggravated with
me) A lot.
Me: What else do they talk about?
Mackenzie: Stuff. They play with me.
Jesus, Mary, and Joseph! Everything started coming together. Sydney’s nightly
visits from Harry. Mackenzie’s conversation with “the little girl that is old
and the little boy that is old.” The Davis’ were on the shorter side—unlike our
family. To a child like her who is used to looking way up to everyone, her
visitors would be just as she described them. I called my mother and told her.
That’s when she told me about the strange experiences she’d had at our house
while babysitting. Experiences that our dog, Star, reacted to with initial
curiosity and then fear. My mother confessed to me that our house freaked her
out from the moment we purchased it.
We had the house blessed. I wish I had this suspenseful story to share
with you about some strange event that happened while it was being blessed, but
I have nothing. Nothing out of the ordinary took place. Prayers were recited, Holy
water squirted, and nothing. Six years passed and all was well. My oldest had
even returned to sleeping in her own room. No more weird visits, no voices from
thin air, nothing. It was great. The lightness we felt was unimaginable unless you've had a similar experience to understand.
And, then, Easter Sunday 2009 came. Around 2am, my husband and I found
ourselves awake at the same time. Disoriented. He asked me if I had heard
something and I, honestly, told him I didn’t know why I was awake. That’s when
we heard it. Something was moving a thick plastic bag. The crumpling noise was
quite loud. It only lasted a few seconds. Silence and then it happened again.
We listened to it happen a handful of times. My husband got up and switched on
a light to investigate. I told him it was probably a mouse and he cursed our
two lazy cats for not doing their jobs. We decided the noise was coming from my side of the room and he made his way around. The bag turned out to be a
refill package for baby wipes. It was sealed with nothing able to get inside it. He moved it and I watched to see if I saw a rodent scamper off to hide, but nothing presented
itself. Chalking it up to the package “settling,” he turned off the light and
returned to bed. The noise started again. And again. And again. He repeated his
earlier actions only, this time, he put the package on top of my dresser. Take
that, Mr. Mouse! He climbed into bed again. Not even two minutes pass when the
noise happens again. He decides to turn on his bedside light and watch. He
witnessed the plastic move--I heard it. But that’s not the worst of our experience. While
waiting for it to happen, we could hear the distinct sound of feet shuffling
along on our thick carpet. Step, drag, step. Step, drag, step. On my side of
the bed. I couldn’t move. I couldn’t breathe!! That night, we knew our reprieve
was over.
A few days later, I was home watching television and talking
on the phone with our elementary school’s secretary when something in the hallway
caught my eye. At first, I figured it was nothing and went back to my
conversation. There was no mistaking it the second time I saw it. A full size
human shadow was cast along the hallway wall and making its way towards the
living room. Where I sat. I told the secretary what I was seeing. I didn’t care how crazy
she thought I was because I had to tell someone. She explained to me the experience
she and her husband had at their former house. Still feeling like I imagined
it, I refrained from telling my husband or anyone else about the event. The
next day, my husband and I were watching TV when I saw him look in the hallway
and react to something. I asked him what was wrong. He told me nothing. Five
minutes later, he exclaimed, “I knew it!” I shocked him when I said, “You saw
the shadow, didn’t you?” The two of us discussed our experiences. We then
proceeded to try and figure out what could be causing this “illusion.” Was it a
reflection? Did it happen when cars were going by the house? Was it one of our pets casting a weird shadow from a distance away? We did everything we could
think of to prove it was something commonplace causing the effect. We were
unsuccessful.
A few days later, I received this email from one of Mackenzie’s
teachers:
Sent: Wednesday, April 15, 2009 8:21:44 AM
Subject: Kenzie
Carol,
I wanted to let you know that Mackenzie has mentioned a couple of times about having a feeling that someone or something is watching her while she sleeps at night. She had mentioned it to me prior to Easter and to Mrs. A***** yesterday. I did not comment on the matter, but I wanted to let you know what she had mentioned.
C****
Subject: Kenzie
Carol,
I wanted to let you know that Mackenzie has mentioned a couple of times about having a feeling that someone or something is watching her while she sleeps at night. She had mentioned it to me prior to Easter and to Mrs. A***** yesterday. I did not comment on the matter, but I wanted to let you know what she had mentioned.
C****
My response (in part):
Sent: Wednesday,
April 15, 2009 9:38 AM
To: ***** ******
Subject: Re: Kenzie
To: ***** ******
Subject: Re: Kenzie
…Kenz has a bunk bed
and, for months, put up blankets around her bed to act as curtains. She
said it was to stay warm. I made her take them down a month ago.
It's all making sense now that you say she's been talking about someone
watching her. It seems to almost coincide with when things began
happening around here again. We've tried to not talk about things in
front of her, but when she's involved with some of the stuff going on, it's
hard not to especially after you read my e-mail to J***. Kenz is sort of
a main character. I guess I'll let her put her curtains back up…found her
asleep on the sofa with her blankets up over her head this morning…
Her
response:
Sent: Wednesday,
April 15, 2009 12:54:50 PM
Subject: RE: Kenzie
Carol,
I remember you had told me about the ghost when it happened before. I am sorry that I did not tell you prior to Easter. I just got so busy working on progress monitoring it slipped my mind. Have you had a chance to bless the house again? Is it better? I will let you know if Kenzie says anything about it again.
C****
Subject: RE: Kenzie
Carol,
I remember you had told me about the ghost when it happened before. I am sorry that I did not tell you prior to Easter. I just got so busy working on progress monitoring it slipped my mind. Have you had a chance to bless the house again? Is it better? I will let you know if Kenzie says anything about it again.
C****
So, yeah, that was going on, too. I’ll finish up this tale in my next
blog post the week of October 20th. It includes real life ghost
hunters, Scooby Doo, and a Big Mac.
ugh
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