It is with a heavy heart that I compose
this week’s post for our Broads of a
Feather blog. On Monday, we had to have one of our fur-family members euthanized.
Skimbleshanks (AKA: Skimby, Skimble, Boo, Skimby Boobers, and Booby Boy) was just ten weeks old when we adopted him from the Bradford County Humane Society. This post will be a tribute to our longtime family member of the fur variety.
At 3 1/2, Syd was already belting out
Broadway tunes with her favorite musical. Cats |
Almost fifteen years ago, we entered our local shelter looking to adopt a female kitten
because, at the time, our three year-old daughter had already picked out the
name Grizabella. Sydney was obsessed with Sir Andrew Lloyd Webber’s Broadway
musical Cats and had it memorized.
She’d even get dressed up and act out the role of her favorite cat, Grizabella,
whose complete backstory was deemed “too sad for children” by T.S. Elliot to
even include in his book Old Possum’s
Book of Practical Cats. Sydney knew
the words to EVERY song and had the aforementioned cat’s leg-dragging choreography
down to a "T" as she belted out Memory. Alas,
the shelter didn’t have a female kitten at the time. They did, however, have a
few males. One stood out to us from the moment we entered the kitty room. This
friendly little white and orange kitten stretched against the metal cage door
meowing non-stop to us and reaching his paw out between the bars, almost waving
to us, to get our attention. And that did it. Our search was over because
Sydney excitedly announced she had found “Skimbleshanks: The Railway Cat!”
Skimble in his new home as a kitten. |
Skimble coming out of the bathroom linen closet. |
I can recall the first time Skimble got
upset with us and that was when we brought a shelter dog into our house. He
wasn’t too keen on the bounding, energetic Australian Blue Heeler/Lab mix puppy.
He protested by turning antisocial for a while. His grudge didn’t last long. Then we did it to him again when Tink joined our family. However, Tink,
being another cat, wasn’t considered nearly as controversial to him and, soon,
the two of them were inseparable. Even though Tink can be quite temperamental—who
am I kidding—Tink is bipolar, Skimble always retained the title of “cat boss”
in our house. What he said was the final word.
Skimble reminding me it was dinnertime as he scowls over the laptop screen and on the bathroom vanity waiting for a drink. |
Over the past year, we’d noticed he was
losing muscle tone and his appetite wasn’t what it used to be. He was even
napping more than usual and not coming out to greet us as much. Some of his
antisocial behavior could be attributed to the introduction of Hannibal, our
rambunctious Jack Russell Terrier/Chihuahua mix puppy, eighteen months ago.
Hanni likes to chase the cats. While we were going through our older dog’s
cancer scare three weeks ago, Skimble’s health declined quickly.
Deciding to put an
animal down is never an easy one to make. We went back and forth. His kidneys
were shutting down and he wasn’t getting around well. He even looked at us
like, “It’s okay. I’m ready to say goodbye now.” And that killed me. This past
weekend was the worst. Even though he kept following me to every room I was in and
meowing to me when I talked to him, he was really struggling. It was
heartbreaking. Part of me wanted him to just fall asleep and not wake up. That
didn’t happen. Too many times, we’ve seen friends and family put their pets
through numerous life-prolonging treatments that they later confided to us they wished they hadn’t done. Quality of life needs to be a huge consideration.
Are we prolonging the inevitable for purely selfish reasons only meant to help
us hold onto them longer or is it something truly for the animal? Skimble was
two months shy of his fifteenth birthday which is equivalent to seventy-six
years old in “people years.” He’d had a long and happy life with our family.
Ultimately, my husband made the call. He knew I was distraught and conflicted.
Skimble hated going to his vet appointments. Hated. It. So much so, he would go
into hiding the moment the cat carrier came into our house. When I say hiding,
I mean hiding. He’d pick places almost impossible for us to get him out of.
Offers of cat treats and even sharp cheddar cheese didn’t work to bring him
out. Once you caught him, he’d throw up, pee, and get instant diarrhea from
inside the carrier. He’d even bite given the opportunity. I feared the
emotional trauma of being taken to the vet clinic was going to be enough to do
him in. My husband said he laid inside the large box with a blanket inside it
all the way there, not once trying to get out. He was even alert. Watching
everything calmly. He was ready. Even if his human wasn’t. I didn’t accompany
him to the clinic. I couldn’t. I said goodbye to him while my husband put his
coat on. I was a total mess. Our dogs were all over me when I fell apart as the
car left our driveway with Boober Boy going for his last ride to the vet’s. My
youngest was home from school. Neither of us slept much the night before. We
had stayed up with Skimble, sitting with him on the floor, petting him and
talking to him as he purred away. Kenzie kept hugging me. Our pets are her best
friends. Due to the quirks of her autism spectrum disorder, she doesn’t have
many peer friends. Animals are nonjudgmental. They love unconditionally. Kenzie
was losing one of her best friends and that bothered me even more to see her so upset.
My husband returned home and told me it
was done. We’re having Skimble cremated so that we can bury him in our backyard
when the ground thaws. All of our late pet family members are back there—even the
girls’ chickens who have passed. A trip to the Troy Fair is in order to have a
grave marker made for him that will simply read: Skimbleshanks 2000-2015 because I can't fit "The best damn cat in all the world" in the space provided.
Now, I can’t end this post on such a sad
note. I had readers report that they were in tears from my last blog post, Confessions of Storm's Human. Stormy’s histology
report came back and she doesn't have the more dangerous mammary cancer!! Instead it is peripheral
nerve sheath cancer which is slower growing, less likely to spread to other
areas, and the cancer cell itself was of the less aggressive variety. Our vet
is confident he got it all so she has a clean bill of health! We couldn’t be
more relieved. She’s had visitors and get well gifts and is loving life. My
husband took her this morning to have her sutures removed since she passed the
fourteen day post-surgery mark which means no more Cone of Shame!!
Skimbleshanks from Cats by Sir Andrew Lloyd Webber |
The T.S. Elliot poem copied from www.catquotes.com :
Skimbleshanks: The Railway Cat
There's a whisper down the line at 11:39
When the Night Mail's ready to depart,
Saying 'Skimble where is Skimble has he gone to hunt the thimble?
We must find him or the train can't start.'
All the guards and all the porters and the stationmaster's daughters
They are searching high and low,
Saying 'Skimble where is Skimble for unless he's very nimble
Then the Night Mail just can't go.'
At 11:42 then the signal's nearly due
And the passengers are frantic to a man -
Then Skimble will appear and he'll saunter to the rear:
He's been busy in the luggage van!
He gives one flash of his glass-green eyes
And the signal goes 'All Clear!'
And we're off at last for the northern part
Of the Northern Hemisphere!
You may say that by and large it is Skimble who's in charge
Of the Sleeping Car Express.
From the driver and the guards to the bagmen playing cards
He will supervise them all, more or less.
Down the corridor he paces and examines all the faces
Of the travellers in the First and in the Third;
He establishes control by a regular patrol
And he'd know at once if anything occurred.
He will watch you without winking and he sees what you are thinking
And it's certain that he doesn't approve
Of hilarity and riot, so the folk are very quiet
When Skimble is about and on them ove.
You can play no pranks with Skimbleshanks!
He's a Cat that cannot be ignored;
So nothing goes wrong on the Northern Mail
When Skimbleshanks is aboard.
Oh it's very pleasant when you have found your little den
With your name written up on the door.
And the berth is very neat with a newly folded sheet
And there's not a speck of dust on the floor.
There is every sort of light - you can make it dark or bright;
There's a button that you turn to make a breeze.
There's a funny little basin you're supposed to wash your face in
And a crank to shut the window if you sneeze.
Then the guard looks in politely and will ask you very brightly
'Do you like your morning tea weak or strong?'
But Skimble's just behind him and was ready to remind him,
For Skimble won't let anything go wrong.
And when you creep into your cosy berth
And pull up the counterpane,
You are bound to admit that it's very nice
To know that you won't be bothered by mice -
You can leave all that to the Railway Cat,
The Cat of the Railway Train!
In the middle of the night he is always fresh and bright;
Every now and then he has a cup of tea
With perhaps a drop of Scotch while he's keeping on the watch,
Only stopping here and there to catch a flea.
You were fast asleep at Crewe and so you never knew
That he was walking up and down the station;
You were sleeping all the while he was busy at Carlisle,
Where he greets the stationmaster with elation.
But you saw him at Dumfries, where he summons the police
If there's anything they ought to know about:
When you get to Gallowgate there you do not have to wait -
For Skimbleshanks will help you to get out!
He gives you a wave of his long brown tail
Which says: 'I'll see you again!'
You'll meet without fail on the Midnight Mail
The Cat of the Railway Train.'
T S Elliot
There's a whisper down the line at 11:39
When the Night Mail's ready to depart,
Saying 'Skimble where is Skimble has he gone to hunt the thimble?
We must find him or the train can't start.'
All the guards and all the porters and the stationmaster's daughters
They are searching high and low,
Saying 'Skimble where is Skimble for unless he's very nimble
Then the Night Mail just can't go.'
At 11:42 then the signal's nearly due
And the passengers are frantic to a man -
Then Skimble will appear and he'll saunter to the rear:
He's been busy in the luggage van!
He gives one flash of his glass-green eyes
And the signal goes 'All Clear!'
And we're off at last for the northern part
Of the Northern Hemisphere!
You may say that by and large it is Skimble who's in charge
Of the Sleeping Car Express.
From the driver and the guards to the bagmen playing cards
He will supervise them all, more or less.
Down the corridor he paces and examines all the faces
Of the travellers in the First and in the Third;
He establishes control by a regular patrol
And he'd know at once if anything occurred.
He will watch you without winking and he sees what you are thinking
And it's certain that he doesn't approve
Of hilarity and riot, so the folk are very quiet
When Skimble is about and on them ove.
You can play no pranks with Skimbleshanks!
He's a Cat that cannot be ignored;
So nothing goes wrong on the Northern Mail
When Skimbleshanks is aboard.
Oh it's very pleasant when you have found your little den
With your name written up on the door.
And the berth is very neat with a newly folded sheet
And there's not a speck of dust on the floor.
There is every sort of light - you can make it dark or bright;
There's a button that you turn to make a breeze.
There's a funny little basin you're supposed to wash your face in
And a crank to shut the window if you sneeze.
Then the guard looks in politely and will ask you very brightly
'Do you like your morning tea weak or strong?'
But Skimble's just behind him and was ready to remind him,
For Skimble won't let anything go wrong.
And when you creep into your cosy berth
And pull up the counterpane,
You are bound to admit that it's very nice
To know that you won't be bothered by mice -
You can leave all that to the Railway Cat,
The Cat of the Railway Train!
In the middle of the night he is always fresh and bright;
Every now and then he has a cup of tea
With perhaps a drop of Scotch while he's keeping on the watch,
Only stopping here and there to catch a flea.
You were fast asleep at Crewe and so you never knew
That he was walking up and down the station;
You were sleeping all the while he was busy at Carlisle,
Where he greets the stationmaster with elation.
But you saw him at Dumfries, where he summons the police
If there's anything they ought to know about:
When you get to Gallowgate there you do not have to wait -
For Skimbleshanks will help you to get out!
He gives you a wave of his long brown tail
Which says: 'I'll see you again!'
You'll meet without fail on the Midnight Mail
The Cat of the Railway Train.'
T S Elliot